Rightly Laid to Rest in Honor and in Peace

in 2003, shortly after the invasion of Iraq, I was privileged to be part of a mission to recover the remains of a fellow Marine who was lost in action. This has been a mission that, more than any other, has shaped my life when I consider my time in the Marines.

I first wrote about it in 2007 and you can read all about the mission HERE as I detailed the events of the day along with some photos that were taken that day on a small disposable Kodak camera.

To be honest, after I wrote that I sort of put my time in the Marines in a box, figuratively and literally. I set it aside, attempting to compartmentalize it and move on with my life. However, there was always this nagging feeling that I longed to see where this Marine was rightly laid to rest. I had hoped that he was laid in a place of peace and place of honor.

In the Spring of 2023, 20 years after this mission, a number of my fellow Marines that were there that day in 2003 were given the honor to meet up with some of the Marines from the unit that was in the ambush in which he was lost and together visit his resting place in Arizona. What an Honor it was to be there that day!

Since that day we have seen this story take root in a number of different places and as I am able to gather the details and links I will gather them for you on this post – as of now here are a few things that are in process:

DocumentaryVeterans Promise, a non-profit that is really making a difference in veteran suicide prevention and partnered with me to help cover the cost of making this documentary to share and help veterans find the healing they need. As a military community we go through great lengths to not leave a man behind, as illustrated in this story, and they wanted to capture it and share it to help others know they are not alone.

Podcast – I was give the additional privilege to sit down with Dave Ragan, the Executive Director of Veterans Promise and dig into the mission as well as discuss things like PTSD and a number of other topics on a long form podcast they do called Promise Keepers. You can listen to it HERE.

Painting – I was given the immense honor to travel to Washington DC this Spring and meet Kris Battles. He is a combat artist for the Marine Corps and is a part of an incredible team at the National Marine Corps Museum just outside of the base at Quantico, VA. He has chosen a picture from the day of this mission to paint for the Iraq exhibit at the museum with hopes to expand to a bronze sculpture as well. I do not have a timeline on the one but I will for sure let you know when it is completed.

I look forward to filling this all out as these things come to fruition in the coming months. Enjoy and God Bless!

Setting up a System for Your Reading List

How I went from scattered to consuming more than 350 books.

Over the past few years I have seen a significant increase in the amount of books and content I have been able to get through. The excitement of having a list of titles that we want to read is not uncommon to me for sure, I know many who repeated respond when talking about books by saying, “it is on my list.” This brings that excitement of what you look forward to reading but it also is accompanied by a burden of a long list of titles that seems to grow but never get shorter.

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Keeping us on the Course (Part 4 of Choosing the Right School for your Kids)

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When my wife and I made the choice to place our kids in the public school system it came with an understanding that their are great benefits as well as some hazards we want to be careful of. We talked through some things that would help us to stay on course when the time came to navigate some those hazards. Below is a short list that has been of great help to us. Continue reading

What is best for MY Kids (Part 3 of Choosing the Right School for your Kids)

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While we wanted to make the right decision for us and we looked at all the options in our area we considered the public schools, private schools and even homeschooling. In the last post I walked through some of the benefits and hazards of each of those options and wanted to share with you which one we actually decided on.

Our Decision
My wife and I have been talking about this for a good amount of time. As we began  looking at the options that were available to us we looked in our immediate area and the area we had been looking to purchase a new home.

What we Found. We found that the public school in our area is in the top districts in the state and would be a viable option for our kids. As we looked at the christian school in our area, they are doing well and while it would hold a significant financial sacrifice we could not make it work. The whole idea of homeschool is not a far reach for us as my wife has a degree in elementary education and is, simply put, an excellent teacher.

So which option did we choose?

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